Genesis 37
When things don't go right in your life it often leads to questions like: where is God? Does He care? Does God even exist? If God is really powerful, then why doesn't He change the circumstances in my life? Joseph most likely had to wrestle with these questions, but when we flip to the end of Joseph's life in Genesis 50:20 we find that he receives the answers he is looking for.
Genesis 32:22-32
Our God never changes, but he does change us. Jacob had a desire for God to bless his idea of bribing his brother Esau, but God had other plans. Jacob received God's blessing, but it was only after a wrestling match that would forever change Jacob's life. This same God desires to change our lives as well if we are willing.